Archive | November, 2011

Divorce: My ex-husband the Clown

I remember telling my parents when I first met the man who is now my ex-husband.  I started with the positives– he was college educated, worked with the touring company of Chicago’s acclaimed Second City, studied with the Cambridge Footlights in England and had toured the world a few times over as a performer.   Then […]

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Divorce – It’s more than just a breakup

One of the most annoying things that I heard repeatedly after I left my husband was the following. “I just broke up with my boyfriend, I know exactly how you feel” I know that my friends who told me that were trying to make me feel better.  They were trying to show empathy and a […]

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Dating in New York – Short Term Relationship Song

I know one of the comedians who made this video. I had nothing to do with it, but I wanted to share it because I find it extremely funny and dead on as far as dating in NYC is concerned. This is why I am so cautious about who I let “enter the kingdom” because […]

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Dating in NYC: How to self-sabotage a date

Anyway this is meant as self-deprecating humor.  I am after all a comedian.  I am a lousy dater because for my entire adult life I have been a serial monogamist so I really don’t know how to do the date thing.  I talk to much, I reveal too much, and I am too hyper…but I […]

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Dating after Divorce: How NOT to use Social Media

I would love to write that post-divorce I handled my online social media profiles with grace, restraint and dignity, but that it would be a total and utter fabrication.  What I did instead was to vomit my personal hell and torment over the internet, and was unapologetic about it.  In some ways I regret it, […]

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The Myth of the Magic Vagina

I used to perform as Cinderella and Sleeping Beauty at birthday parties for little girls.  Something about re-telling the stories to these young impressionable females got to me, and suddenly one day I just couldn’t do it anymore.  The high budget films watched repeatedly are far more influential to them, but I still didn’t want […]

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