I think I might be beginning to snap. Not actually have an emotional break down, I am healthier than I have been in years. I am just so tired of living in New York, but I love New York. My entire being has become conformed to this strange reality of subway commuting, 3 am […]
A good friend of mine recently confided in me his frustration with his man whore lifestyle. It seems he was now back with his on and off again girlfriend of several years. I don’t want to reveal his identity so I will leave out a lot of specifics. After a little back and forth he […]
I am launching a new category on this blog: The Hall of Fame. Anyone I place in the online dating Hall of Fame will be a person who expresses the most extreme traits of an already established archetype. To protect this man’s identity for the purposes of this article I will simply call him, “The […]
I have read a bunch of articles on the web lately about New Yorkers who gained weight while stuck at home with no power. The boredom of life without social media, cable television or even light to read a book took its toll. Sitting and staring at your cat, eating junk food and going without […]
We have all been on a date with a person like this. No matter what you say, or what you have accomplished in life, to a snob, it won’t be good enough. Who is the snob? And why are there so many of them in New York City. I am going to use a male […]
Since my divorce, I can’t seem to do anything right when it comes to dating. I try to hard, I don’t try hard enough, I go out too much I stay inside my apartment for days on end, it doesn’t seem to matter. I have read multiple books on dating, even ones on male […]
I graduated college at the age of 23. I was living in Chicago Illinois and working as a stage actress. My pay was low and my job did not provide health insurance, although it was a professional union theater. I also had any number of part-time jobs but none of them provided me with health […]
Trying to date men who are age appropriate in the roughly 35-45 age bracket it shocks me how many men in this category still exist. We know them well, by their habits and ways…but what exactly is a “Man-Child?” Age – at least over thirty Occupation – usually something with no real career advancement but […]
If my online dating profile was my inner monologue it would go something like this. Divorced. I am putting that first because some of you guys can’t handle it. So there it is. DIVORCED. But hey at least I tried marriage, you are 40? 42? and never married? So what’s up with that? Maybe you […]
Anyone who has lived in New York city for any length of time is familiar with the following expression. “Gay or European?” Before I start I want to say first that there are many shades of the sexual orientation rainbow. Meaning, some gay men act, dress and look no different from a typical heterosexual man. […]
