In some was I was lucky, the conditions of my divorce made my split extremely cauterized. When I discovered my ex-husband was gay, I wanted out of the marriage immediately. I saw no hope for reconciliation and had no desire to work anything out. We had no children so I didn’t see the point in keeping him […]
Anyone who knows me and knows this blog understands my complicated relationship with online dating websites. For the most part I loathe the entire online dating experience, but when I go offline I rarely meet anyone appropriate. I noticed that my online dating profile was becoming a magnet for the most pretentious men in New […]
After I left my marriage emotionally scarred and damaged, I have discovered that I am the world’s worst dater. No really…I am the world’s worst dater. I am terrible at it. I talk too much, reveal too much, ramble on and on…and I think I come across as a neurotic idiot. No, make that a desperate […]
I am adding the following disclaimer to all of my dating related blog posts. I change details, and create composite characters when I write about dating archetypes such as “Mr. Houdini, Mr. Angry, etc. I would hate it if someone wrote about a high energy blonde comedian negatively in a blog, so because of that […]
I am adding the following disclaimer to all of my dating related blog posts. I change details, and create composite characters when I write about dating archetypes such as “Mr. Houdini, Mr. Angry, etc. I would hate it if someone wrote about a high energy blonde comedian negatively in a blog, so because of that […]
I get in so much trouble with this blog as it is. I think it is one of the many factors of my somewhat unconventional life of being a children‘s performer by day, burlesque host and raunchy comic at night that scares most potential mates away. No, actually it scares all of them away except […]
I wish I could write snappy little sentences on this topic, compile a top ten list of things to combat the sense of being utterly alone. Using obvious tips like surround yourself with friends, or don’t hide up in your apartment by yourself and on and on. But it would be disingenuous of me to […]
I have a feeling this post might upset some people. But I have thought that before and it hasn’t stopped me yet. As Valentine’s Day approaches I think of the cliché line that is often uttered in Victorian novels, romantic comedies and tales of epic romances. I will always love you, unconditionally I find this […]
So I am starting this one worked up again, as that is usually what compels me to write. One of the things that kind of drives me crazy with divorce is the “blame the victim” mentality. That is, for some there is never a victim in a divorce, that both sides of the conflict must […]
No one likes to talk about it. But I have heard from a few friends that post-divorce this problem is quite common. There is some real estate that is downright coveted come holiday time. And sometimes post-divorce you lose your stake at it. And that real estate would be getting a seat at the adult […]
